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Chat rules

You're in the right place if you're 18 or over and enjoy casual and serious conversations with other gay, bi, lesbian and trans people. To keep the rooms safe, fun and respectful for everyone, please read the rules below.

Age and language

  • 18+ only. You must not be here if you are under 18. We may report people to their ISP or to law enforcement if we believe a minor is in danger.
  • English only in the main rooms. Use any language you like in private messages.

Respect and behavior

  • Be respectful: no hate speech, slurs, discrimination, homophobia, transphobia or insults.
  • Use the built-in ignore feature if you meet someone unpleasant.
  • No disruptive behavior such as spamming, trolling, excessive caps or bullying.
  • No violent, non-consensual or suicide-related content.

Adult content

  • Keep explicit talk in private messages, not in the main rooms.
  • Nudity is allowed on live cam calls between consenting adults.
  • Absolutely no underage content, roleplay, usernames or photos.
  • No incest, bestiality or other illegal topics, even as a joke.
  • When asking for "young", always make clear you mean 18+.

Images, media and calls

  • Don't flood the room with images.
  • No flashing or strobing media, hate symbols, or images used to attack others.
  • No violent or hateful GIFs, memes, drawings or voice notes.
  • Cam feeds must be live and your own: no pre-recorded video and no streaming other people's content.
  • Selling services on cam or anywhere else in the chat is not allowed.

Safety and privacy

  • Think twice before sharing personal information. It can easily fall into the wrong hands.
  • No doxing or posting anyone else's personal information, even if they say it's fine.
  • VPNs and proxies are generally not allowed and most are blocked. There is no need for one: we ask for very little information.
  • No advertising or promoting socials, other websites, products or services. Socials can be swapped in private, only when asked.

Profiles and usernames

  • Keep usernames and profiles appropriate and readable.
  • No under-18 images on your profile.
  • Don't change your username while muted, and don't use extra accounts to get around a mute, kick or ban.

Discussion topics

  • Any topic is fine as long as it doesn't break these rules.
  • Politics and religion: go ahead, but respect others, and move it to private if a moderator asks.
  • Don't threaten, hack or exploit the chat.

Severe violations

Sharing, streaming or discussing any of the following leads to an immediate ban and a report to law enforcement:

  • Child sexual exploitation or abuse material.
  • Bestiality.
  • Physical abuse, torture or violence.
  • Incest or non-consensual acts.
  • Selling or distributing any content that is banned here.
  • Murder, death or depictions of real-life harm.

VIP

  • VIP members follow the same rules. Mutes, kicks and bans still apply.
  • Buying VIP illegally, such as with someone else's card, is reported to law enforcement.

Reporting

  • Human moderators watch the rooms.
  • To report a message, click the three dots beside it. To report a profile, click the flag on it.
  • You can also message a moderator directly. Moderators have a shield beside their name and sit at the top of the user list.

Enforcement

  • Severe violations mean a permanent ban and possible referral to law enforcement.
  • Repeat offenders, even for minor rules, are banned.
  • Always follow moderators' directions, and don't harass them.
  • Anyone under 18 is banned.